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Beginner’s Guide to Horse Riding Lessons

  • Amanda Mullins
  • Nov 23, 2025
  • 4 min read

Starting something new is always exciting, especially when it involves horses - majestic, gentle creatures that have captivated humans for centuries. As we embark on this journey together, let's explore the wonderful world of horse riding with open hearts and curious minds. Whether you dream of leisurely rides through the countryside or mastering the art of dressage, the first step is always the most important. Let’s dive into the essentials that will make your first riding lessons a joyful and safe experience.


Embracing the Basics: What to Expect in Your First Riding Lessons


When we begin horse riding, it’s natural to feel a mix of excitement and nervousness. The good news is that riding schools like Merriewood Equestrian in Winchester create a welcoming environment where safety and comfort come first. Your initial lessons will focus on building a strong foundation - learning how to approach a horse calmly, understanding basic horse behaviour, and getting comfortable with the tack (the equipment used for riding).


We’ll start by getting to know the horse - grooming, leading, and bonding. This connection is key to a positive riding experience. Then, we’ll move on to mounting and sitting correctly in the saddle. Posture is important; it helps us communicate clearly with the horse and stay balanced. Our instructors will guide us gently, ensuring we feel supported every step of the way.


Practical tip: Wear comfortable clothes and boots with a small heel to prevent your foot from slipping through the stirrup. A helmet is a must-have for safety, and most riding schools do not provide them so you must have your own.


Eye-level view of a horse grooming session in a stable
Grooming a horse before riding lesson

Beginner Horse Riding Tips to Build Confidence and Skill


As we progress, it’s helpful to keep a few beginner horse riding tips in mind to make the most of each lesson:


  • Relax and breathe: Horses are sensitive to our emotions. Staying calm helps the horse feel at ease.

  • Listen to your instructor: They have years of experience and can offer personalised advice.

  • Practice balance: Try to keep your weight evenly distributed and avoid gripping too tightly with your legs.

  • Use gentle cues: Horses respond best to soft signals rather than force.

  • Ask questions: There’s no such thing as a silly question when learning something new.


Remember, every rider learns at their own pace. Celebrate small victories like mastering a trot or feeling more secure in the saddle. These moments build your confidence and deepen your connection with the horse.


horse and rider during dressage test showing correct leg position.
Rider’s feet positioned correctly in stirrups

Finding the Right Riding School and Instructor


Choosing the right place to learn is just as important as the lessons themselves. A good riding school offers a safe, supportive atmosphere where horses are well cared for and riders feel valued. Merriewood Equestrian, for example, is known for its commitment to horse welfare and creating a joyful riding experience for all ages and levels.


When looking for a school, consider:


  • The qualifications and experience of the instructors

  • The condition and temperament of the horses

  • The facilities and safety measures in place

  • The variety of lessons and activities offered


If you’re searching online, you might come across riding lessons for beginners that cater specifically to newcomers. These lessons often include smaller class sizes and personalised attention, which can make a big difference in your learning journey.


Understanding Horse Behaviour and Communication


One of the most fascinating parts of horse riding is learning to communicate with these intelligent animals. Horses use body language to express their feelings, and as riders, we become fluent in this silent language. Observing a horse’s ears, eyes, and posture can tell us if they are relaxed, curious, or uneasy.


For example, a horse with ears pricked forward is usually attentive and interested, while pinned-back ears might indicate discomfort or irritation. Learning to read these signals helps us respond appropriately and build trust.


We also use our own body to communicate. Shifting our weight, applying pressure with our legs, or using reins gently guides the horse’s movements. This partnership is built on respect and patience, and it grows stronger with every lesson.


Preparing for Your Riding Lessons: What to Bring and How to Get Ready


Before each lesson, it’s helpful to prepare so you can focus fully on the experience. Here’s a simple checklist to keep in mind:


  • Clothing: Wear long pants and a fitted top. Avoid loose scarves or jewellery that could get caught.

  • Footwear: Boots with a square heel are ideal.

  • Helmet: Safety first - always wear a riding helmet that has been professionally fitted.

  • Water bottle: Staying hydrated is important, especially on warm days.

  • Notebook: Jotting down tips and observations can help you remember what you’ve learned.


Arriving a little early allows time to meet your horse and settle in. Taking a few moments to breathe deeply and relax can set a positive tone for the lesson.


Growing with Your Horse Riding Experience


As we continue to learn and ride, the bond with our horse deepens. Each lesson brings new skills and joyful moments. Whether it’s mastering a new gait or simply enjoying a peaceful ride through the Winchester countryside, the journey is as rewarding as the destination.


Horse riding is not just a sport; it’s a connection to nature and a chance to develop patience, confidence, and empathy. With the right guidance and a caring environment, anyone can discover the magic of riding.


We invite you to explore the wonderful opportunities available at Merriewood Equestrian and take that first step towards a lifelong passion.


Rider on horse returning from a hack being greeted by bay horse in paddock next to drive.
Rider returning from a hack

We hope this guide has inspired you to embrace the adventure of horse riding. Remember, every expert was once a beginner, and with kindness, practice, and the right support, you’ll find your rhythm in the saddle. Here’s to many happy rides ahead!

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We are a small family run riding school based on the outskirts of Winchester. 

We pride ourselves on our level of customer care, horse care and welfare.

We have 5 horses under our riding school license.
 
Our ethos is very classical…
“To ride with an ever learning, understanding attitude to help our horses develop more naturally and as a result, far more beautifully”
 
We teach our customers to ride keeping that ethos in mind, maintaining empathy towards our beautiful equines.
We offer private lessons and hacks to children and adults from beginners to advanced riders.
 
All enquiries are welcome!

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